my boss always asks her 3yo daughter if she would like to say hi to me over zoom & sometimes she says yes & sometimes she says no thank you. & at first i was thrown off but it’s honestly beautiful to see young girls setting healthy boundaries.
until i moved to hawaii i never realized how weird it is how people in san diego wear bikinis to the beach or a pool party to just sit around the water and never actually get into it.
Time to break the spell of thinking just because you would never do certain things to someone that others couldn’t possibly behave that way.
Learn how to manage your feelings of denial, shock, disappointment and sadness regarding how people treat each other.
Still choose love.