I want the kind of relationship where I wake up in 3 years and still feel the way I felt when I first started falling in love. The honeymoon phase, but with growth, experience and memories in between.
even when you think you’re missing out you never are. what’s for you could never miss you, it could never escape your grasp, it could never vanish from your vicinity, resist the need to rush out of fear; divine timing doesn’t discriminate, what’s yours will find you eventually.
Girl, emotionally unavailable men will ruin your mental health. That man hurting you, shutting you down, stressing you, ignoring you, communicating poorly can't be your soulmate. Understand it !!
you are allowed to outgrow people, outgrow things, outgrow situations, without guilt, without shame, without explanation, you are allowed to become who you need to be without attaching an apology letter to every stage of your growth.
I know who I am,
I love who I am,
I like what I do,
& I like how I do it
& I like my mistakes
& I like the way I learn
& I like the pace with which I learn my mistakes
I don't wanna be anybody else, but me
Men with emotional intelligence are so attractive. They don't insult you, they don't ignore you, they speak to you gently even though they're mad at you; they don't become aggressive or manipulative, they listen, they respond, and they patiently hold a safe space for you >>>