Lmaooo your punishment is not that you’ll never find a good woman.
It’s that you’ll never be able to control yourselves or respect a woman long enough to be happy. You destroy your families, your careers and your children because you lack sexual discipline and integrity.
A healing stage is disgust. Yes, disgust. You will be DISGUSTED by the people whose love you seeked. You will feel embarrassed about the choices you made and the people who had access to you who didn’t deserve it. Feel this feeling then let it go.
That will NEVER be you again.
I honestly hate "informal" work culture.
I don't want to go for drinks after work every other day.
I don't want to be in a big whatsapp group texting each other about TV shows.
I don't want them to know every aspect of my life.
Let me do my job & leave me alone.