- The world doesnโt give things, you take things. If you ever find yourself in a position to change your life forever, do whatever it takes to change it.
- You are alone, utterly alone in this world. Nobody is coming to save you. Not even your parents. They have their own life to live.
- There is absolutely nothing you cannot recover from. When life is being cruel to you, lock in and hang in there. It does get better with time.
your life actually starts at 27; its the age where reality starts to hit. You start noticing patterns you used to ignore, bad habits, weak decisions, wasted time. And you realize some of your pain isnโt bad luck, itโs repeated mistakes. That is a hard thing to accept, but it is also where growth begins.
This is the age where excuses stop feeling useful. You start being more honest with yourself. You cut down the distractions, look at your circle differently, and take more responsibility for your life. It is not fun. It can feel lonely and slow. But every small step helps you build respect for yourself. You stop drifting and start living more on purpose.
These years are not supposed to be easy. They are supposed to shape you. The person you become during this window can influence the rest of your life. Stay disciplined, stay patient, and keep choosing better even when nobody is watching. If you can get through this season, you will enter your thirties stronger, clearer, and far ahead of the men who never woke up.
I fell in love with myself, not blindly cos most times people throw that advice around lightly.
I started creating boundaries that prioritized me in friendships, in relationships and it caused my respect to come back. This, in return made me start loving the person I was becoming, and made me stop trying to seek validation
People pleasing was never the problem, thinking youโll end up alone if they donโt like you was. Now I enjoy my company, now iโm no more afraid of being alone and I now choose my people by myself, just like that my relationship with people changed. Itโs a very beautiful feeling
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