Adult friendships require GRACE. They’re not ignoring you or “being weird” they’re battling something mentally. It’s not always personal because they couldn’t make your birthday. I’m sure they wanted to but finances maybe made it not possible. You have to think beyond just you.
It’s key to actually like yourself. Not just love yourself.
Cause you can love yourself from afar, you can “love” yourself and still set yourself on fire to keep others warm.
Hmm. But when you REALLY fuck with you and like yourself, you move different.
In my country, Turkey, there have been earthquakes that have been continuing since last night, leaving great damage. Thousands lost their lives. The others die from cold weather and lack of help. Everyone lost their family. WE NEED YOUR HELP PLEASE RTWEET
i’ve been reading about how some folks choose emotionally unavailable and avoidant partners, because those relationships are “low maintenance.” they don’t require radical honesty and real effort from them. some folks choose avoidant people so they never have to be fully invested.