I have a love-hate relationship with how confrontational I am.
I literally can’t rest until we’ve cleared the air. I don’t like unresolved tension, and I’d rather have the uncomfortable conversation than let things fester.
Good people are deeply empathetic, but once exhausted, they switch to seeing reality. They see you exactly as you are, without the filter of love. That is why their anger feels so cold; it's the absence of the warmth taken for granted.