Your job as a GF to someone elses baby daddy is to STFU ! Yโall new GFs be having so much input & be ready to get into it with the BM not knowing WTF is going on ! It doesnโt matter what he tells you or what you think about her ! Your job is to mind your fuckn business !
Part of being a mother is really accepting the fact that nobody's obligated to tend to your kid besides you. Having the mindset of not ever becoming too dependent on anyone when it comes to your child is really a major ๐
Seeing your baby hit milestones is such a bittersweet feelingโฆ ๐ฅบ Yes theyโre getting smarter, learning new things & growing into their own little person, but at the same time, theyโre getting bigger, more independent, and slowly needing you a little less. Itโs beautifulโฆ but it tugs at your heart all at once. ๐ค
I canโt stand a women who becomes obsessed with you over a man, stalking and watching you like itโs her PAID job ๐โฆ like baby you donโt got nothing better to do ??