I would love to actually make a video and share my experiences and the things I’ve learned when I once joined the world of escorting. A lot of men I would see wouldn’t even want spicy time - they booked me because they saw someone they could talk to. I will never stop carrying the weight of the tears of men who would open up about the pressures of being a provider or the ones who would break down over the fact that their children hated them because the price for a financially stability meant the absence of a present father in the home. I understand the irony of the situation considering they’re hiring an escort which to some degree is wrong but that’s not the focal point.
Hate me if you want but I genuinely have felt deeply for the invisible weight a lot of good men carry.
Like I said being a woman has its own horrors and hurdles but it doesn’t mean I will invalidate the unique struggles of being a man in today’s society.
If I were open about how right now I think it’s easier navigating society as a woman than it is as a man I’d be a “pick me.” These days plastic surgery and a few men crazy enough to fund the operations - women can go far if they put their mind to it. I think about the fact the the sex industry has empowered many but also weaponized what could be perceived as a weakness. I think about how as women we LEARNED to use our sexuality to our advantage for profit because men will always take what they want so we should atleast get something for it. I think about how dating for love is dead and we’re opting for transactional situations because they’re safer and more predictable. I think about how we’ve given up trying to understand the opposite gender and we now bash eachother. I think about how the age of technology has impaired our social skills and anxiety is running rampant in society.
I think, I feel, I have opinions but society has taught me opinions are not made to be shared and respected but debated. To have an opinion is dangerous these days.
@femia86@moIayide@Jaazlovee Not saying that there’s anything wrong with having a job. Saying this specific job really doesn’t deserve the glorification that it receives