Adedimeji🖊

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It only gets real when you are not one of them.

And when you seem to break out, they come for you.

They are against you because they see you tryna break through the shells.

They like it when you are being placed in an incubator and once hatched, they get to put you in a cage,

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you from overreaction.

It will save you from unnecessary stress.

Women are complex in nature so you may not fully understand them.

Women don't understand women

Women don't understand men.

Take it or leave it.

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You may not fully understand a woman but you should understand women's nature.

Loving her without understanding her nature is pointless.

It's vague.

It's bland.

It's meaningless.

Loving her and understanding her nature will save you from excessive headaches.

It will save

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You don't fall in love. You love.

You don't fall in love with her. You fall in love with your purpose.

Men shouldn't fall in love BUT love.

There is nothing like 'I have feelings for her.'

Scrap those 'I love you shit.' You aren't a kid. It's meant for teenagers.

A man shows

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complain about it.

Because she doesn't understand herself is not an excuse to transfer aggression to you.

Let's be f8cking clear pls.

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Ok. I'd like to correct this pox-stricken mentality that says...

"You should live happily with a woman."

BULLSHIT

This statement is FLAWED.

It is alarming.

It is ambiguous.

You don't live happily with a woman.

Your sense of happiness should come from YOU and not

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anyone else.

You live happily with yourself, then she lives happily with you.

Why should you live happily with a woman?

Is she God or something?

Is she your creator?

Cos she going through many phases doesn't make her god. Men do too and hardly do we

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deserves.

The man is superior. At the same time, the woman is NO inferior.

She is the neck. Do not disregard her.

Do not underestimate her importance.

Without the neck, the head CANNOT function.

Take it or leave it.

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Men and women are NOT equal.

Men and women can NEVER be equal.

Men and women were never created equal.

The man is superior—the head. So she is meant to follow.

She is meant to follow his lead, be submissive and accord him the respect he

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Women can't love men.

Women can only respect men.

In that respect, we have love.

Without respect, there is NO love.

However, a man must love his woman.

Period!

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responsible for her upkeep.

You are not responsible for her finances, but you CAN help with it.

Let's get 'em straight please.

AND let's be f8cking clear on this.

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You've not married her.

You've not paid her bride price.

She is not obligated to do your laundry. She is not obligated to clean, but CAN help with cooking.

She CAN help with the dishes but you MUST do the laundry yourself.

Likewise, she is not married to you yet.

You are not

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men.

Women DO NOT understand men.

Well, she might sympathize with him but not for too long, and he'll lose respect in the process.

It's devastating.

It's so f8cking disastrous.

It's a f8cking nightmare.

Hence, the NEED for every man to build multiple sources of income.

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You know the biggest nightmare of every man out there?

Getting fired. Losing his job.

You know why? Because the moment he loses his job, he becomes a f8cking weakling to his spouse.

Then he starts irritating her.

It's not her fault. He shouldn't blame her.

Women DO NOT love

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wife.

You've betrayed trust.

You've betrayed loyalty.

You've committed murder without using a dagger.

You've committed emotional murder.

Do not break the bond. Do not go overboard.

DO NOT COMMIT THE SINS OF BROTHERHOOD

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There is what we call loyalty among brothers.

When we are loyal to brothers...

We are loyal to their wives.

We are loyal to their children.

We are loyal to their families.

When she walks up to you to complain about your trusted friend,

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things. What you NEEDED do is hear from your friend.

What you NEEDED do is to talk things with your friend.

Do not try to fix things with her. It's NOT yours to do. Do not overstep your boundary.

The GREATEST sin of brotherhood is sleeping with a brother's

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putting things in check, then you may run into debt and NEVER come out of the trench.

"Great accomplishment is not about natural talent, but instead about being in the right place at the right time..."

THINK ABOUT IT

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We talk about showing up.

We don't talk about the lack of resources.

We don't talk about the poor basic amenities.

We don't talk about the rotten, depleted state of the country that could prevent you from showing up.

Ain't no motivation Monday. Some days require

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rest.

Some days require you to survive. Not everyone is privileged to keep showing up.

Not everyone is privileged to keep up the streak.

And if you wanna talk about showing up daily, empower them with the resources.

Because if you decide to keep showing up WITHOUT