DeJ 💕

Howard Alumna 🗣

[T•Y 👨🏽‍💻 @Chilled_Ty]

Your job is important but, so are your workouts, your lunch breaks, vacation days, hobbies, the people waiting for you when you get home.
Works pays for your life. It isn't supposed to replace it.

[Martha Ahumuza @MarthaAhumuza]

I find it endlessly amusing when men expect a level of domestic labour from me that I don't even do for myself. If I haven't built my own life around cooking every single day, what exactly makes you think you'll be the exception?

[idk luv, enjoy. @related_feels]

I love my name, I love my skin, I love my face, I love my faith & mindset, I love my life, I love what God did with me

[dr. floww @__Floww]

The aisle? The arches? The cross?!! SICKENING.

[Nina @Ninaaa518]

Consideration means soooo much to me.

[ꪗꪖꫀ 🍚 @yaetaylor]

Finish school. Don’t have these niggas kids . Get your degree .move away from your hometown. LIVE LIFE FOR YOU 🤏🏾

[DIOR @diorasfff]

not in an arrogant manner. i just like nice things.

[🎀 planet clarke 🎀 @planetclarke]

“Women have a hard time submitting to men because it’s hard for Gods to submit to their own creations” altered my brain chemistry a little bit ngl

[Mamello🧚🏽‍♀️ @MelloFelicia1]

and for the lady, perhaps a handsome man with a healthy obsession for her, who takes initiative, and is tall enough to reach the top shelf

[Madesse @LadyCharrr1]

As a woman ?
Poverty , pregnancy and marrying a loser.

[ray. @sup3rsun]

I wholeheartedly believe in this shame. If you can save me from an evil man, I’ll love you forever.

[Jane🌸 @janatkwagala]

Men like this are so hard to find, she won fr❤️🥹

[Princess LIL BIT 💫 @thatgirlmulaa]

Yall always talm abt how to keep a ngga. Girl a ngga better be up on the edge of his bed thinking abt how tf he gon keep me 😂😂🤣

[💗 @ma1ybe]

I always go back to the clip that says “a good man is an average woman” and I agree cos WTF is this??? He’s taking care of HIS child. It’s just called parenthood 😭😭✋🏽✋🏽✋🏽

[22gunner @Gnar1104]

Yo need that for yo self nigga

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

“She can’t keep a man”. It’s so easy to keep a man ya’ll. I promise. All you gotta do is allow them to lie and cheat in peace, don’t challenge their patterns, and don’t address anything they do that hurts you. You’ll keep them for years and years until they find their next toy.

[вlαnc @dqveed]

powerful women are always a threat

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

incase you weren't raised correctly, i think it’s a mans job to set the tone in a relationship; whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. she takes what he gives and reflects it. when a man leads with clarity, love, and respect, it creates a space where a woman can feel safe, soft, and secure. vice versa, when he leads with confusion, mixed signals, and inconsistency, it forces her to operate in survival mode. she becomes guarded, unsure, and emotionally exhausted.

[lee ˚ ༘ 𖦹⋆｡˚ @whodfislee]

as an oldest daughter you need a partner that is useful #noshade

[Ki @Kitranada]

Telling people I don’t cook only to make elaborate meals for myself is my type of carrying on 😭