@Claritysteps Yewww this kind of weird prep manipulative talk got me even more suspicious of men than before. What about just being genuinely interested of what women want ?
I've been doing this job for over a decade, and photographers still ask if I only work with them for money.
This is my job. Whether or not I really like it (I do) is irrelevant to it still being a JOB. It is EMPLOYMENT. When people do JOBS, they expect to be PAID.