divarly

Opinionated but random thoughts❤️. Please don't be upset🥺. Just think first.

[divarly @_divarly]

A guy in class said he supports women's right but it should be limited in politics bc women overuse power. That's what they don't just get.... That he won't vote for a woman if she ran for president, not bc she's incompetent or untrustworthy but because she's a woman.

[divarly @_divarly]

Today in class we debated women's right. A tiring day for me tbh. Seeing how my teacher was more stern towards those that supported women's right, and made it hard for them to get across their point. Seeing the girls yes to not deserving rights. Seeing them use christianity too.

[divarly @_divarly]

The way we relate submission with finance is getting tired. Because in a real sense, if he pays the bills, the woman does 100% of the house chores , home making and child nurturing.

The whole "I provide, so you must submit" is weird to me cause ... (Read what I said again.)

[Rorisang ♠️ @sangscript]

Going 50-50 with a woman and expecting her to be submissive is WILD

[divarly @_divarly]

@kingCiimii @Stargir10461711 @UncleCCA Dude there are poor men that are toxic and possessive. Don't try to justify it.

[divarly @_divarly]

By this logic, a straight person was the very first groomer?

[Ada Idemmili (AKPUNWA) @adaigbo_2022]

80% of gays were groomed into the act. This is fact

[divarly @_divarly]

@its_daqueen I swear and those people will still say sperm swims to egg o😂. Now they can't accept that their guy's sperm swam to the girls egg. Okay

[divarly @_divarly]

@its_daqueen Yeah as a matter of fact he went to the lady so that snatching talk. Your guy walked up to the thieves bag and jumped into it, even zipped himself inside 😂. But yeah they "stole" my man.

[divarly @_divarly]

@Kimmykatcy @its_daqueen Let's also start to see that the man we loved moved to our best friend..... That's the first step.

[divarly @_divarly]

Or.... Or hear me out? Your cheating man can still locate the betrayal friend from wherever and link up. Except you'll hide all your friends forever.

[Joji’s Eyebags♡✧⁠*⁠。 @Jvssicoco]

Btw...this should be a lesson for those of y'all that like to bring your friends to hang out with you and your man. Or bring her over to his place.
Cause getting cheated on with your friend or someone you're familiar with is just dangerously crazy.

[divarly @_divarly]

@gbonjunbolaO Yep. Exactly.

This post is not even to educate anyone. Like if at this point you can't see likee. I'm basically explaining why this whole 50-50 takes just get me so damn tired. We're splitting bills but not every other thing? Nah

[divarly @_divarly]

The biggest issue I have with this 50-50 argument is that it's only centered on finance. Everyday "split bills" "pays on dates" "pays tfare." And that's where it ends.

We rarely ever discuss division of domestic labour and child caring.

#Thread

[divarly @_divarly]

A traditional home is better than this whole 50-50 thing I see. Atleast the woman doesn't work, we know she's on one side, rather than working and coming home to make fresh food. But then we've seen the abuse in traditional homes.

At this point the solution is men doing more.

[divarly @_divarly]

I would also add before time that I am not a Do It All feminist. I already feel like someone will come and impose such idea on me. I don't dream of that. I already get physically tired watching it happen to others👍🏼.

Oh and also....

[divarly @_divarly]

The biggest issue I have with this 50-50 argument is that it's only centered on finance. Everyday "split bills" "pays on dates" "pays tfare." And that's where it ends.

We rarely ever discuss division of domestic labour and child caring.

#Thread

[divarly @_divarly]

I'm not having 50-50 conversation w someone that doesn't would not cook, clean, wash cloth, wash baby bum bum, wake up at midnight, bottle feed, be aware of details about the kid.

Everything cannot be split bcs ultimately the woman bearing the child gives more but atleast try.

[divarly @_divarly]

Like they won't have to deal with all that.. but what sort of kids won't you raise if you let others do it for you? We always think the solution is to employ workers instead of asking the man to step up.

It's funny bcs no matter the maid you hire, work will still touch you.