There is a whole generation of men out here who are absolutely exhausted from being the "transitional guy." They come into your life, absorb all the trauma your toxic ex left behind, provide stability, and love you gently. But because your brain is still addicted to chaos, you mistake his consistency for a lack of passion. You drain his peace to heal yourself, and then abandon him because there isn't enough "drama" to keep you entertained. Men are constantly being used as emotional handymen to fix damage they didn't cause, only to be discarded the second the foundation is stable. It is pure emotional vampirism.
the world doesnโt owe you fairness. it rewards people who never wait for permissions and dive into the uncomfortable unknown. no one will come to explain why your โpotentialโ didnโt translate to success, not your parents, partner, teacher, nobody. youโre on your own.
sex is so sweet and intimate actually,, everything is so pornpilled nowadays that people forget how precious sex is when it's with someone you love and cherish, it's beautiful :(
i have no desire to be rich so i can buy a rolex or a lamborghini.
i want to be rich so i can control my time and go to the gym at 3pm on a monday.
sit at a cafe and relax for an hour on a rainy afternoon.
so i can cook meals at home with fresh ingredients.
spend on my family and friends without worrying about a budget.
that's my idea of a rich life, not the fake consumerist idea shoved down my throat.