@clashreport "Niggas talk alot of shit but thats after im gone cuz they fear me in the physical form. Let it be known, im troublesome!" -Barack Hussein Obama
The kindest thing literature does is remind you that your peculiar little feelings have always existed. Someone, in some century, was equally confused by love, bored by society, tired of performing, and hungry for meaning.
bell hooks wrote, “Sometimes people try to destroy you, precisely because they recognize your power — not because they don’t see it, but because they see it and they don’t want it to exist.”
i feel like everyone moved on wayyyyy too quickly from the fact that miss USA is literally dating the captain of England... like, this is straight out of a story book 💕 someone make the movie right now!!!
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Even on bad terms you will always love this person and be there for them but things are different now and that's okay. Now that's there's distance and separation you'll notice how much luckier you have become and things just work out for you for the first time in a long time. That's your confirmation that you're doing the right thing.
I’m at a point in my life where as long as I know I did right by you, I’m okay with walking away when something no longer works. I used to hold on longer than I should’ve because I cared, because of history, or because I wanted things to work out. But I’ve learned you can’t keep carrying relationships by yourself. If I showed up, kept it real, and did my part, that’s enough for me. Whether it’s family, friends, whoever, I don’t force what’s no longer mutual. I just leave it where it’s at and keep moving.
When I leave people alone, I genuinely think I’m giving them what they want. It’s no way you did what you did & expected me to believe you still wanted me around.
one of the main reasons i’m so gentle with myself is cause i believe i’ve already experienced enough hardship in my life. i’ve already been mishandled and undervalued by others and myself at times. so i deserve more patience, forgiveness, and consideration at this point.
They say a relationship works only if the guy loves more than the girl and now I think I understand why. For a guy, what he feels matters. For a girl, how he makes her feel matters. He won't leave as long as he loves you and she won't leave as long as she feels loved.
And we all see that women submit naturally when they are loved right.
Do the right things, and hopefully things will work out for you.