Just hit a fat blunt and suddenly my problems didn’t disappear… they just got really chill and started vibing with me instead 😂🍃
Who else turns into a philosopher after 3 puffs?
Not everyone around you is your friend, and that's okay.
If they don't invite you, don't force your way in.
If they never check on you, don't keep chasing them.
If the love isn't mutual, let it go with grace.
Stop living your life based on what people might say. Do what brings you peace and happiness.
Your partner's friends are not automatically your friends.
Your neighbors are not necessarily your friends.
Your colleagues at work are not always your friends.
And most importantly, not everything happening in your life needs to be shared. Protect your peace. Privacy is power.
IF YOU KEEP DOING THIS, AN AVOIDANT WILL NEVER COMMIT EVER ⚫
You're doing everything you think is right.
Giving them space. Being patient. Not pushing.
And they're still pulling away.
Here's what nobody tells you:
Some of y’all, all politics aside, are just mean. Y’all are mean and cruel individuals, and it doesn’t make you funny or sexy or mysterious or hot like you think it does. Kindness isn’t weakness. And if you are like this, I hope one day maybe you will realize it.
did it hurt? when you convinced everyone to play your favorite board game and then somebody said “this is complicated” while you read the rules 😭 every single time
So apparently being a father is weird now? I’m currently at my baby mama's house because her car got snowed in and was stuck in the driveway. She had no one else to call and had to be at work in the morning. My girlfriend told me not to go, said it was “weird” that I’m still the one my ex calls, and someone else should have handled it. I ignored that and went anyway because when it comes to my kids, I don’t debate, I move. I shoveled, salted, got the car free…
My lil bro just turned 20. We were having a convo and I said something along the lines of “they’re better than that” & he said, “no, people are what they show you. That’s your optimism.” I’m stunned because my optimism is a “positive” quality. But maybe it creates delusions too.