Just a reminder that your friends love you but they don’t always have the capacity. We’re all going through multiple things simultaneously. Give grace.
my mom told me "there is no point in arguing with someone who does not have an open mind. people with a closed minded mentality will never look at all the variables being presented, just the ones that benefit them" and i've never heard anything more true in my life
normalise having a threatening aura but really just being an absolute sweetheart , keeping the perfect balance of softness but letting it be known you’re not to be played with
& another thing... I had to learn to stay away from the ppl who made me MEAN or CRAZY or VERY REACTIVE because l've come to realization that, that's not me & that's not who l wanna be so if you bring it up out of me I gotta dissociate from you I gotta go.🚶🏽♀️
@ElliottWilson Mal talks way too matter of factly. like he leaves no room for him to possibly be wrong lmao. as if his opinion on the matter is the end all be all.