Fareedah.

Feminist✨

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

✨

[Hauwa 🌟🌬 @Hauwa_L]

Fine boy, better block me now. I no dey use woman matter play.

[JANE @jannygel]

Any extended family wey bill me, na achive I dey put their chats😂.
If any relative ask me for money, I will tell my parents before sending them money.
Anyone disturbing me for money, I will tell them and my parents will say sha won ni blocking 😂😂😂😂
If my parents and siblings are not billing me, Walai no extended family can bill me😂😂😂
2 months ago, my cousin from my dad’s family reached out to me for house rent because she was posted to Ibadan for NYSC, I sent her money. She was very appreciative.
3 weeks later, she asked me to send money for her graduation 😂😂😂😂, she wants to do photoshoot, make her hair etc. I just archived her chats😂😂😂
She has sent me multiple messages and called me; I didn't pick.
Nobody can use billings kill me biko, mo daju pa😂😂

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

#real

[Ade @aderopoafolabi_]

£50,271 job at London Central.

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

I always say this.

[remx @biigrem]

one cheat code to adulting is always having something to look forward to, no matter how big or small. it makes the everyday stuff a little easier.

[SMALLIE @the_smallie]

I love this video because few months ago, some of you on this app were arguing that random grassroots footballers were better than Asisat Oshoala simply because they were men. 😭🤦🏼‍♂️

[La𐌌Aʀ⭒ @HEISLAMARR]

I might complain about working sometimes, but God I thank you for giving me the ability work and most importantly a job. I will never take that for granted.

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

This is very triggering 😭😭😭

[Possy Oge @possibleoge]

“How can you be in the uk all these years and not have savings”

Until e reach my turn.

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

Still that person 😔

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

I’ve realized that I’m one of those people who fall in love and make it their whole personality.💀

[AbayomiKay @Iam_AbayomiKay]

If your man is comfortable watching you do house chores alone, he hates you. If your woman is comfortable watching you carry all the bills alone, she hates you. Anything that doesn’t involve both of you making each other’s lives easier in ALL areas is definitely not love.

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

@tife_jenny You’re correct 😂😂

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

Lmaoooo

[Beth⚡✨ @Heyitsbeth12]

You'll never hear Muslim men advocating for 50/50 even after marrying multiple wives they still provide for them,their women don't get to lift a finger. I've never seen a Muslim man beat his wife or cuss their women publicly,Pastors needs to work on you Christian men😑

[Gbémilékè ✨ @gbemilekeo_]

Very imbalance equation. I can pay all my bills myself and I will now go and be with a man to do his chores only to split bills again.

Am I mad? 🤣

Even if I'm not splitting bills, I'm not doing any man’s chores.

[OTOME💪 @TomeofTomeKoko]

The way a good number of women romanticise the idea of meeting a complete stranger and marrying them within 3–6 months in the name of “men know what they want” will never sit well with me.

Not to be that person, but it’s strange. And the even crazier part is how much agency you’re willing to surrender in this whole narrative. Any random stranger can walk into your life, decide he wants to marry you within six months, and you interpret that as some grand validation of your worth. “He saw my worth, that’s why he married me so quickly.”

As opposed to questioning how strange it is that you’re willing to let someone you barely know make a lifelong commitment with you. Why is his willingness to marry you so quickly the ultimate measure of your worth? Where does your own judgment, discernment and decision-making come into all of this? Do you even like the person beyond the excitement of being chosen? So many questions, very few answers, but yeah…..it is what it is.

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

@JajaPhD Sameeeee.

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

ECOWAS polygamous is mad😭

[Ms Iloka Pedro💙 @Miss_Iloka]

That is why, as a woman who is ECOWAS-polygamous by nature, if your Nigerian man is in his feelings, you move to the Congolese one.

If he starts acting up, you move to the Senegalese one. If that one misbehaves, you head to Ghana.

Benefits of living in London fr.

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

This is insane.

[Zikoko @Zikoko_Mag]

“Take this d*ck like the b*tch that you are”

My fiancée almost called off our engagement. — Deji*, 30

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

As how

[Zikoko @Zikoko_Mag]

“I miss you mummy”

I muttered while having sex on the night I lost my mum. Hated myself for so long. — Musa*, 41

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

Can’t even imagine speaking English every-time 😭.

I’ll be speaking English at work and then come home to do the same too?? No abeg.

[Joseph Brendan @Joe_brendan_]

Marriage is not something I can do with a non Nigerian.

Marriage is tooooooooo eternal for me to do it with someone I will spend 10 years adapting to or will give up some parts of my culture for

The gist has to be steady for marriage to be interesting for me. If I lack things to gist with you I will clock out of the entire relationship

And what gists will I gist with someone that spent their first 25 years in Oregon?

When I can be gisting random with a Nigerian babe and we will end seeing that we know a mutual from secondary school, from different states and we met during Milo soccer competition

We can have random gists about Styl Plus and Paul Play. We can talk about Nigerian politics from way back. We can talk about so many things that both of us can relate to.

Gisting is too important for me in relationships. It's too important. And way back gists are Soul striking

More importantly I don't have to adjust my taste buds. Black Tax also is a community responsibility for me, many cultures frown at it and I cannot stop that.

[Tobi 🧑‍💻 @Kaykeed_]

Most Relatable 🥂🥂🥂

[Fareedah. @_dottt_]

Once tried talking to this Pakistani dude, he was cool and all but the first time I had to translate Yoruba to English, I knew I couldn’t do it again.😔

It always has to be a Yoruba man, a dark skinned Yoruba man.😔🥹

[Oyinda @Oyinda_x_]

The one time I dated outside my race it was giving that sponge bob & Patrick meme everytime I see my own people.

Interracial couples are in hell, especially those black men/ white women pairings.

[LOTUS🪷 @Phechr_Ufuomaa]

Nigerian women don't talk about women from other countries, or even talk down on them bcos we don't even think about y'all but y'all stay talking about us.

Especially the Nigerians by penetration. Is everything okay in your marriage? Is the cosplay not working?