No disrespect to anyone, but God please don't send me another partner who doesn't know how to communicate, take accountability, or emotionally show up. I don't want a partner who's still battling their own issues, avoiding healing, depressed, or emotionally unavailable and refusing help. I don't want a partner who can't stand firm, speak with clarity, or take control of their own life.
going through a phase rn, i think i've finally came in terms w letting a lot of stuff go. including, feelings, ppl, fears, just everything. it's time for new beginnings, new chapters that brings happiness, love &' endless memories. it's time to move on w life.
Right now life teaching me detachment. Nothing’s really mine. People come and go. Moments pass. Love shifts. It’s all temporary. I’m learning to enjoy things without gripping them too tight. To accept when energy changes. To let go when it’s time.
i'm finally coming to peace with the fact that you can't keep tripping over what you can't control, all you can do is stay solid on your end. Everyone gonna do what they want regardless of your feelings. Don't lose your mind tryna figure out where you went wrong.
Life is currently teaching me to be silent and accept what is. People will lie on you, twist the truth, blame you for their shortcomings, drag your name and believe things further from the truth even if your character has already been shown to be solid, and you just have to let it happen. Fools argue. Fools are defensive and quarrel and sew discourse. There is no need to clear up anything because God sees ALL and he's the ultimate defender. Be silent in moments you feel compelled to speak on things that are unnecessary to speak on.
I been doing this the last couple of years & realized nobody ever really cared tbh 😂 ppl are really for the moment these days, you gotta enjoy them before they feel like ya turn is up
Normalize not forcing your importance in someone's life. Let people do what they want so you can see what they'd rather do. If someone doesn't see the value in having you by their side, don’t try to convince them.
I promise ya the gym saved me … I felt like I had so much built up emotions until I started takin the gym serious & now??? I be so calm 24/7 its actually scary 😭