I cannot stand people who whisper “loudly” whatever they’re reading and I need to know if anyone else has this pet peeve or am I psycho… it drives me nutssss 😭
Ended a situationship and he said “You wanna know the real reason I never took you seriously?” I’m like “Tell me. I’ve actually been dying to know” and the reason was very jarring to say the least. But I post this to say, you’re not crazy. If it feels like he is saying one thing and doing another. Or you’re waiting out a change in the relationship. He knows what he’s doing. There’s a reason. He’s just hoping your standards stay low and you want him bad enough to collect the crumbs indefinitely.
Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn’t less love. Check in not out.
I don't think people understand... you can LITERALLY drive someone to a point of not wanting to be bothered with you at all, on ANY level. Whether it's a friendship, relationship, family, etc. It's only so much one person can take.
What you do in private, shows in public. Reading shows in a conversation. Your diet shows in energy. Your discipline shows in confidence. Your focus shows in your results. You are what you cultivate when no one is watching. Prioritize your time & focus on discipline/consistency.
Wake up and immediately look at small screen before clocking 8 hours behind medium screen. Take a few breaks to check in on small screen. Go home and spend a few hours staring at big screen to wind down before getting into bed and looking at small screen.
Living the dream.
i wanna be in love with someone who is equally as in love with me and i don't want it to just be love i want us to be bestfriends and to adore and respect each other and to fit together like puzzle pieces and tbh I have faith i'll find that.
If someone truly cares about you, they'll feel the pain of knowing they've hurt you. They won't respond with gaslighting, lying, or deflecting. Instead, they'll be focused on making amends. But if they're more concerned with protecting themselves and their image than with your feelings, that's their ego talking, not love. When you call them out and they get defensive instead of protective, that's your sign right there. Walk away-find your peace and never look back.