One thing about women with unrealistic expectations:
They get angry at their own brothers for dealing with women who expect too much… and they sometimes, fight off those women themselves.
Deep down, they know.
Social media will help greatly in the thorough scrutiny of your woman.
-the things she posts and agrees with
-the things she finds funny
-her takes on her “ideal” relationship
Trust me, it’s mostly never just in the name of “social media”.
People eventually reveal who they are through what they consistently entertain, defend and promote.
When a woman is losing an argument, she quickly switches to downplaying the man’s intelligence just for the mere fact that he’s arguing with a woman.
“Why are you arguing with a woman? Aren’t you ashamed of yourself?”
So when you do that, do you mean men shouldn’t stoop so low to argue with women or you’re just a delusional misogynist?
The moment you find yourself explaining the obvious to a woman like this, should be when you must accept and watch the ship sink.
Don’t ever think they don’t know what they’re doing.
Women intentionally test boundaries to know what they can get away with. When she lays her hands on you, don’t tolerate it.
Put “actions have consequences” into practice and let her understand that you’re not a weak man who can just be disrespected whenever she feels like.
She hits you for the first time without any consequences, she will make it a habit because she’s got the impression that she can get away with it every single time, and that’s how they slowly become abusive towards you.
Whatever reason that makes you think men are not supposed to hit women should be the same reason why a woman should never hit a man.
The best thing you can do for yourself is to choose women who like you. If you put yourself in a spot to be chasing women and doing too much just to “convince” her to consider being with you, that’s a simp behaviour and it’s completely self-degrading.
You can’t negotiate genuine desires.
The scarcity mindset will make you lose yourself respect and value. If the energy isn’t mutual, respect yourself enough to step back and move on. She’s not playing hard to get, she just doesn’t like you, leave her alone and find someone else.
Adopt the abundance mindset. You’ll always meet better-looking women with every 2 meters you cover.
Don’t be a scrub.
Women know that a man who is reckless with his finances is a foolish man and undependable. Most of them even find you stupid for giving them money without asking for anything in return.
Being stingy and using your money to build yourself is a sign of self-love. Your money is the proof of your sweat and hard work.
Protect it.
Young man,
Understand that you can’t beg your way into being desired. If she’s giving you cold-dead-end replies, just cut it. Leave that last reply on read and never open that dm again.
It’s never difficult when you’re genuinely desired by someone.
Carry your dignity up on your head and walk. Ego is not always the enemy. You need it.
I’m happy this came from a woman
If you’re angry with what she said, then you’re delusional. If you underrate the default hypergamy nature of women, you will continue to remain far from reality. You’re still living under a rock.
Invest in yourself, upgrade your life and secure yourself a better future. Women are not as honourable as you think. She doesn’t owe you anything in return and there’s nothing you can do to change that.
If you think you’re an exception and your story will be different, go ahead and learn for yourself.