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[e @_ernjffr]

jijiq

[يارا @RA4rrnh]

"One of the reasons I married my husband is because of his genuine empathy. Empathy sangat penting in marriage ya. Contohnya last night, i terjaga sebab batuk-batuk. Then i pergi toilet. I keluar toilet, i tengok dia pun terjaga. I said i’m sorry if i woke him. He asked if i’m okay? I said i am. And continue to baring. Then he came with vicks on his hand. Ask me a permission to rub the vicks on my back, my nose, my neck & my chest. That’s empathy. Sometimes we don’t need to ask. It’s the little gesture 💖

[That Abu Guy @malaygentleman]

Acah terpaling tanggungjawab ambik je la gambar tu tak sampai 5 saat takda rugi juta2 pun bisnes kau tu. Kau tak ambik gambar pun kadang culas jugak tanggungjawab takyah nak sembang banyak la financialfaiz. 🥲

[SMI @SyazanaMI]

Sebab fitrah wanita itu sendiri bila dia dah rasa selesa, selamat, dikasihi, dihormati dan dihargai, dia akan jadi submissive tanpa disuruh. Women don’t have to be trained, forced to. It comes naturally.

[fries @MedandCric]

"we never hated cooking we hated the way it was stereotypically made obligatory on us to learn household "

[e @_ernjffr]

penat

[e @_ernjffr]

pecah otak

[Kia 🧸ྀི @xevekiah]

One night I asked my mom how she knew my dad was “the one.” She didn’t say butterflies. She didn’t say grand gestures.

She said, “There was a year I wasn’t okay.”

She told me after I was born, she felt overwhelmed all the time. She stopped talking as much. Stopped laughing as loudly. She said she felt guilty for not being her usual self.
And my dad didn’t demand the “old her” back.

He just started doing small things.

He would wake up earlier to pack her lunch.
He’d fold the laundry without announcing it.
He’d sit beside her on the couch and just hold her hand without asking a single question.

She said one night she finally cried and told him she felt like she was failing at everything.

He didn’t interrupt.
Didn’t give a motivational speech.
Didn’t say “but you have so much to be grateful for.”

He just listened.

And the next week?
He didn’t treat her like she was fragile.
Didn’t bring it up during arguments.
Didn’t use it as proof that she was “too emotional.”

He loved her the same. Calm. Steady. Normal.

My mom looked at me and said,
“That’s when I knew. Love isn’t the loud days. It’s who stays gentle on the quiet ones.”

And suddenly their 20+ years together made sense.

Real love doesn’t panic when you’re not at your best.
It adjusts.
It waits.
It stays.

[✧ @cessonmute]

My coworker ended her five-year marriage over something most people would probably call “small.”
She told me that in their home, she naturally took on the chores. She cooked. She did the laundry. She kept things running. It wasn’t something they formally discussed... it just became the routine. And she went along with it.
Then she got sick. Not just a light cold... the kind where your body feels heavy and even standing up is exhausting. For once, she couldn’t function the way she usually did.
That evening, her husband came home, saw the laundry basket, and separated his clothes from hers. He washed only his. Later, he made himself dinner, plated it, and ate. When she asked if he could make something simple for her too, he replied, “I’m exhausted. I don’t have the energy.”
She said it wasn’t even the words that hurt. It was the absence of instinct. The absence of care. The fact that helping her didn’t occur to him automatically the way serving him had always occurred to her.
That night, lying there sick and hungry, she realized she wasn’t in a partnership. She was in an arrangement where her labor was expected, but his effort was optional.
People think love disappears in dramatic arguments or explosive fights. But sometimes it fades in moments like that... when someone watches you struggle and chooses convenience over compassion.

[e @_ernjffr]

tak sabo nak pindahhh

[‏ؘ @helllojojo]

i have enough on my plate now i gotta worry about giraffes

[Yves ౨ৎ @yvessirae]

I was married to a man who thought paying the bills made him a husband. Meanwhile, I cooked, cleaned, held space for his feelings, and still got asked, ‘What do you bring to the table?’ Divorce taught me the ugly truth, Some men don’t want a partner they want a wife on audition. They want someone to serve them, prop up their ego, and make life easy, while they get the credit for simply existing. The second a woman stops performing that role, they get angry, bitter, and defensive. This isn’t about love or teamwork, it’s about entitlement. And the patriarchy trains them to think that’s normal

[e @_ernjffr]

time tgh miskin perut nak sukiya 😌

[e @_ernjffr]

cb bila nak habis cabut karpet ni

[putri salju ayam kremes @poetrisaldjoe]

Taman Ismail Marzuki freaky as fuck

[AE @arfdy12]

Time sarapan

Everyone : ………..

My Roti Bakar :

[e @_ernjffr]

buat kerja sampai 3, still kena panggil lemah.

[𝓑ᥫ᭡ @quesadaaa_]

Dating outside of your education bracket leads to misunderstandings & arguments

[e @_ernjffr]

lenguh nya kaki nk tekan brek pun gigil

[e @_ernjffr]

ada 7 sample nak kena shoot..............