Mothers who are mothering without being mothered by their own mother are living a completely different reality than mothers who are being mothered while they mother.
Someone said “ the death of ego will set you free as a woman” and I agree. Ego is the part of you that says: “I must prove I’m enough.”
Freedom is when you realize: “I don’t need to prove anything to be enough.
Emotional freedom is necessary, you become less reactive, less defensive, and more grounded in who you are.
The best thing you can do for yourself a woman is to become unbothered by unnecessary validation.
It’s seeing some of these Pasefika folk cheering on this mass deportation and illegal alien platform that Trump has, as if their parents weren’t just illegal immigrants a decade ago… some of them are still undocumented, and have the audacity to cosign that message. Crazy.