Girl to Girl,
Read your Bible.
Buy skincare.
Drink lots of water.
Exercise.
Eat healthy (fruits and vegetables, stop late night eating)
Know your people, stop pushing yourself to join a clique.
Start that business.
Invest in your looks.
Work on your mindset.
Travel, go out, treat yourself.
Read books.
Learn skills, become a woman of value.
Money is not your enemy, desire it.
PS: No more mediocrity in 2026💕
My wife stopped saying "thank you" when I did the dishes.
I noticed.
I was offended.
"I'm helping," I thought. "Where's the gratitude?"
One night I said it out loud.
"I did the dishes. Again."
She looked at me like I'd asked for a medal.
"You live here too."
That's when it hit me.
I wasn't "helping."
I was living in my own house and acting like a guest who occasionally tidied up.
She didn't need help.
She needed a partner who stopped waiting to be thanked for what he should've been doing anyway.
Your wife doesn't need a helper.
She needs a man who stops keeping score.
I want my child to outdo me in every way. Be smarter. Go further. Heal faster. Win bigger. I’m not raising a mini-me, I’m raising an upgraded edition. A BETTER version.
Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.
Trust me, when a man actually likes you, he’ll come & get you. He won’t leave space for uncertainty. He’ll be claiming what resonates before someone else does. Until a man explicitly says, “I like you” and “I want us,” kind gestures remain just that, gestures.
girl to girl, please PICK the GENTLE ONE. the kind one. the one who brings you peace. the protective one. the one who is sure of you. the one who respects you. the one who understands your silence. the one who sees your heart without judgment. the one who holds your dreams with care. 🫶🏽
I pray I marry a man who actually wants to be married. A man who isn't out here embarrassing the family we created.. I pray I marry an honest, hardworking, loving man. I pray he has morals, goals, and boundaries. even when things get tough between us he won't give up and tries >
I hope I marry a guy who understands how important little things are, like holding my hand when I'm feeling nervous, getting me flowers when I'm feeling down, and telling me how much he loves me every time we have a disagreement.
Princess treatment doesn’t mean he buys me whatever I want. It means he LISTENS. He PROTECTS. He LEADS. He is HUMBLE. He communicates. He doesn't let me go to sleep crying or upset. He doesn't makes me feel like I'm hard to love. He is my PEACE in chaos and my HOME.
This dude on tiktok said, “Men are supposed to lead and you niggas are going tit for tat with her behavior. Are you not acting like a bitch? What would you call that?” Lmfaooo HE ATE!
yk what's attractive? when a man CALMLY talk to you in times of disagreement, a man who is soft with you, who treats you like the most delicate thing, a man who is affectionate and caring, a man who pays attention to small details and never disrespects u even in anger, BIG FAN.