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[M @_failur3_]

Everyday is filled with too many thoughts and boredom

[angel @gxthcxlt]

unloved child to unlovable adult pipeline

[M @_failur3_]

Why does life have to be like this.

[M @_failur3_]

That feeling when you wanna hangout with someone but you remember that you have nobody.

[M @_failur3_]

I just wanna be loved bro.

[Unfiltered @quotesdaily100]

This is how a child loses trust in their parents;

- Asks a genuine question. Gets dismissed.
- Shares excitement about something. Gets mocked.
- Comes home with a problem. Gets lectured instead of heard.
- Cries. Gets told to stop being dramatic.
- Fails at something. Gets compared to someone else.
- Achieves something. Parents barely look up.
- Tries to talk. Parent is on the phone.
- Learns that home is not a safe place to be honest.
- Starts hiding things.
- No quality time. Only correction.
- No "I'm proud of you" without a condition attached.
- No listening without an agenda.
- No apology when the parent is wrong.
- No curiosity about who the child actually is.
- Child raises themselves emotionally.
- Grows up. Moves away as fast as possible.
- Calls home out of obligation, not love.
- Becomes a stranger who shares blood.

And the parent wonders why their child never opens up.

To raise a child who actually trusts you, do this;

- Put the phone down and look them in the eyes when they talk.
- Ask questions about their world without judging the answers.
- Apologize when you're wrong. They're watching everything.
- Celebrate who they are, not just what they achieve.
- Make home the safest place they know.
- Listen to understand, not to respond.
- Show up to the small moments. Those are the big ones.
- Tell them you love them without them having to earn it.
- Be the person they run to, not from.

NON-NEGOTIABLE.

[M @_failur3_]

I hate humans.

[mimi @lightnds]

why are people so mean :(

[M @_failur3_]

@Dicenoemergency Thank you sm 💗

[M @_failur3_]

Visiting a psychiatrist today for the first time ever.

[M @_failur3_]

@takedemjeansoff Thank you ♡

[M @_failur3_]

Just took my first antidepressant.

[M @_failur3_]

I feel so lonely

[M @_failur3_]

I hope these holidays will be calm and pleasant.

[M @_failur3_]

Nobody cares. I fucking hate being alive.

[M @_failur3_]

I'm so fucking disgusting.

[M @_failur3_]

@RobertKellyBall 🤍

[M @_failur3_]

Talking with people always reminds me how much of a loser i am.

[M @_failur3_]

@RobertKellyBall Sorry to hear. 🫂

[M @_failur3_]

Why do people randomly start ghosting you and then after a while just block you without even telling you???? It has happened to me from friends i had a good relationship with.