Unfortunately, i don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant. Check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me
If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
Mind you, this applies generally. I get home after a 12-hour shift at past 7pm and my mum, who got home before me, expects me to cook dinner, that’s simply not happening. I made that very clear from the moment I started that job.
"Is this how you'll do in your husband's house" Yes o mummy. Yes it is!
If I’m home before him, I’ll definitely cook. But if you’ve been home all day, I’m not coming back from a stressful workday to start making dinner. If nobody feels like cooking, we’ll order food and call it a day.
Maturity is realizing that none of us are easy to love. What truly matters is finding someone who’s willing to understand you, stay committed, and grow alongside you.