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[FEYi @_FEYii]

@Handi_hq IK ball 🙂‍↔️

[FEYi @_FEYii]

First @Handi_hq Premier Care subscriber on @LagosLifeApp 😌

Nepo baby no fit dey play with her nails AND her home maintenance 😂💅🏽

#HANDI #PremierCare

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

hate when someone is becoming important in my life because now I have something to lose

[FEYi @_FEYii]

@justlinqit 🔥

[T!WA🥹🇬🇧™️ @nobod3yyyy]

I was 21. NYSC posting: a village clinic in Osun. No light. No water. Just me, a matron in her 60s, and women who walked 3 hours for antenatal.

Day 1, a 16 year old girl came in bleeding and pregnant. Her 40-year old husband said, “It’s normal. First baby always hard.”

Matron took one look at me and said, “Corper, you go learn today.”

We had no ultrasound or blood bank. Just gloves, faith, and a torchlight I held with my mouth while Matron’s hands disappeared inside that child.

For 6 hours we fought. The girl was slipping. Matron prayed in Igala and English. I cried, thinking, “This is why I wanted to japa.” 😂

Then the baby’s cry came; a small, angry boy, alive. The 14-year-old whispered, “Aunty, thank you for not running.” 😭

Covered in blood and sweat, Matron said: “You think this work na for money? This work na for the girls who don’t know their own worth yet. You stay. You fight. You stubborn. Because if we no stubborn, who go be stubborn for them?”

That was 5 years ago.

Today I’m a doctor in Lagos with a clinic in Abule Egba. Every girl who comes in with “normal period pain” that’s been killing her for years reminds me of that torchlight and Matron’s hands. I get stubborn.

I’ve diagnosed 47 cases of advanced PID this year, done 12 fibroid surgeries, and caught 3 girls early before their wombs got damaged.

Ladies, my message is simple:
1. “Normal” pain that stops your school, work, or life? It’s NOT normal.
2. Your body is not “village people.” It’s biology. Test it. Scan it. Know it.
3. Be stubborn about your health. The world will call you dramatic. Be dramatic and alive.

That matron died 2 years ago, but her stubbornness lives in every girl I refuse to let die quietly.

[☔ @Whotfismick]

me trying to decide if I should sleep or not cause I love sleeping but I love my free time at night even more

[Annieberry @richieann]

no matter how traumatized I am, I still choose to give the purest love I can give

[rageful @ragehrt]

i hate yelling. i hate getting out of character. i hate arguing. i hate being mad. i hate everything that makes me negative.

[Big Tee @societyhatestee]

you guys ever feel like you just want to disappear? not die.. not commit suicide. but just disappear.

[🛸 @tufthug]

when i get more active on twitter thats how you know im getting insane again

[✬ @TeeAirRa_]

Still more people to meet. Still more people to love.

[her🎀 @iam_dijah5]

I really can't wait until I fully transition into my next phase of life. I'm beyond ready for new things,new people and new experiences 😭

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

me that treats myself like an egg.. i should allow you do me anyhow????

[✨Attention Deficit Hyperactive Diva✨ @feisty_la]

Sometimes you get tired of being the one to reach out first.

This goes for friendships and relationships.

[nobody important @Rachellelove024]

@Dearme2_ The inability to see beyond yourself. It is a great hindrance and will control your current understanding of everything.

[Jessy_szn💕 @Astro_jessie]

I’m yet to reach the peak of my beauty and that's something to look forward to.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

Call it unhealthy if you want, but isolation is still the most reliable coping mechanism ever invented.

[𝑨𝒚𝒐 x 𝑮𝒂𝒅𝒈𝒆𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒏 𝑯𝒖𝒃 @arrakunrin]

I hope my siblings can say this one day