Does anyone remember playing a game in school called “freerice” and when you played the game, people would give rice to children in countries who were starving?
You really shouldn’t be fighting anyone that you’re not willing to kill. And yes it is that serious. It could EASILY go that far and as an adult, if the issue is not worth killing about then it’s not worth fighting over either.
I think in romantic relationships it’s important to know when to show up as a romantic partner on some days and then when to just show up as a friend or maybe it’s just me