When you get kids
Get them to be active in church activities.
Not because 'they will be saints' no.
But because, the church, when properly involved in can train you for the real world
Many people became secretaries with SSCE, wrote minutes, learnt how to listen, learnt public speaking, faced real crowd, mastered self regulation, etc etc
The church is the freest internship you can give to a child. Their peers will get to 35 and start joining toastmasters club or start paying coaches to learn how to speak to a crowd of 5
I am not saying this is a silver bullet neither am I saying your kids will automatically turn out well if they are active in church
I am saying, if you can, take advantage. It will help build them in many aspects
To the young Ghanaian with no connections, no rich parents and nobody important to call. I know life can feel unfair when you watch doors open for people who only had to knock once.
Please don’t let that convince you that there is no door for you. Your beginning may make your journey harder but it does not get to decide where you end. Keep going!
Before you start loving anyone and getting into relationships, make sure you learn how to detach yourself and move on when the need arises. Learn how to nurse and handle heartbreak because it is inevitable. Many people today are stuck in relationships where they are being treated like a piece of trash, but they don’t even know how to move on.
You can genuinely be a good person and love with your whole heart, yet you can’t say the same for the other person. Many people are so insincere and mean, and that is one of the reasons the dating pool is as messed up as it is today. So before you give anyone your heart, make sure you know how to retrieve it if the need ever arises.
Everyone should learn how to love with all their heart, but when they need to walk away, they should be able to do so as if they never loved you, as if you never existed. Learn how to choose your peace and never look back.
Working on myself because at the end of the day, everything is my fault.
Not because I caused it but because I choose my reactions, my habits, my mindset. If I let the pain turn me bitter, that's on me. If I let the past control me, that's on me. I can't always choose what happens, but I'll choose who I become because of it.
My read receipt is on
Last seen is on
Status view is on too.
No disappearing messages, no hidden or locked chats.
I have nothing to hide. And if I want to ignore your messages, I'll do it with my full chest, because I am an adult and you can not beat me.
My read receipt is on
Last seen is on
Status view is on too.
No disappearing messages, no hidden or locked chats.
I have nothing to hide. And if I want to ignore your messages, I'll do it with my full chest, because I am an adult and you can not beat me.
There are still so many firsts waiting for us. First time in a new country, first big achievement, first home, first random day where life finally feels settled