Please raise your daughters to have hobbies, interests, and academics...so when they become adults and middle-aged women they have something to talk about besides a man.
My issue with social media and the influence it has over people is that most of the advice is to devalue your options
Nothing is “good” enough or “worth” it, that message is very detrimental but because many people are insecure and have low self esteem they believe it’s true
I’ve met people who barely talk about God but treat others with love, and I’ve met people who never miss church but don’t know how to treat people right.
People that think I’m super nice and non confrontational don’t understand that it’s because I like them and they haven’t done anything to warrant any other treatment and as long as they stay there, they’ll never know any other version of me. So much so that if someone told them a story of my madness, they’d call that person a liar.
one of the main reasons i’m so gentle with myself is cause i believe i’ve already experienced enough hardship in my life. i’ve already been mishandled and undervalued by others and myself at times. so i deserve more patience, forgiveness, and consideration at this point.
Was in a relationship w/ someone for years never once interacted with anything I posted on ig now every time I open that app it’s notifications of this mf liking shit from when we was together ??? People so strange 😭