im an actual romantic. i want it all. corny letters, long paragraphs, professing your love for me, PDA, everything! I hate the normolized idea of safe love. I want a reckless love story. i want to be loved loudly and unapologetically. None of that half shit.
It's so selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their peace because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.
GIRL TO GIRL: PLEASE give yourself the chance to meet someone new instead of going back to a person from your past who didn’t value you when they had you.
Unfortunately, I do want a provider. I do want a protector. I do want a leader. I do want a dominant man. I do want emotional maturity and effective communication. I do want mental stability. I do want to be spoiled. I do want self awareness. I do want clingy, obsessed and safe. I do want someone who chooses me every time. And nobody is going to make me feel bad for wanting those things in a partner.
I like men who are intentional. The kind that asks you to be their girlfriend, makes things official, and leaves no room for confusion. The kind that truly wants you and never lets you wonder where you stand.
Men that make their intentions crystal clear.