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kevin feeling bad™️ because of his bad brain and wanting oh so badly to just cling to andrew and be held by him so tightly but having a problem with voicing his needs so he just sits there pathetic and moping hoping andrew will catch on (he already knows) and when he finally+
Hate this genre of posts where cis people imply they're more deserving of healthcare than trans people and then act innocent when trans people get upset. Why mention it in the first place and call it unfair if you DO think they deserved their procedure just as much as you? Evil.
"they're the only ones left" you'd know yone & k'sante have more interesting traits than just being slightly older / more mature than the rest. but someone as basic as you wouldn't care, since you just ship what's popular without a second thought
ultimately people can have t/b preferences and that's no issue i also have them but i do need people to do some serious reflecting on why they think bottoming is more degrading or humiliating because that mindset is absolutely homophobia lol
@madiseolarrr It’s just that I feel like being the bottom is more humiliating and degrading 😭 that’s why it bothers me when they turn my top into the bottom 😭
imo having a preference is fine (and if we're reading smut we're all perverts anyway) but when people try to impose their preference as the "correct" one and harass others for having a different preference, that's when it becomes an issue
When t/b tagging talk comes up I find it ignorant to imply ppl are weird or perverted for having a preference & that the expectation to disclose t/b is seen as burdensome. Dont get me wrong, its a small inconsequential thing but thats why its so weird to moralize it imo
and when it comes to tagging, the author doesn't owe you to tag that, actually. if it's not specified you can just go read another fic, how is it such a big deal? as long as it's not tagged wrong obviously
everyone screaming and crying and shitting their pants that theyre not heteronormative and dont have any weird homophobic ideas ab bottoming and then this person just up and says it
age at which I first did things :
-kiss: 12
-dating: 15-16 ?
-drunk: 15
-smoking: 20 or 21
-sex: it depends but lets say 16
-drugs: girl which one.
-tattoo: 23
-piercing: 22
possibility some of these are wrong bc i have a memory disorder