i'm a type C girl...
- i can deep clean the whole house. or ignore a laundry pile for days.
- i can give a motivational pep talk, or need one myself.
- i can be 20 mins early or walk in 20 mins late.
- i can go to bed at 8pm, or scroll reels until the sun comes up.
The best skill I've developed is figuring out how to stay in a good mood even when there’s so many reasons I could be in a bad one. when you start doing this you don’t have bad days you have bad moments in a good day.
this old lady just said to me “growth is realizing that someone’s inconsistency is a sign to step back, not a challenge to prove your worth” and i think y’all need to engrave this into your soul.
I saw a post today that said, “When you finally understand your place in people’s lives, your feelings stop getting hurt.” Honestly, that’s the truth, and one of the most valuable lessons life will teach you, whether it’s with friends, family, or anyone else.
breakups are ok. losing friends is ok. moving on is ok. healing is ok. saying no is ok. being alone is ok. what is NOT ok is staying somewhere where you don't feel happy, valued, loved or appreciated.