Communication is not arguing. Somebody telling you what they need is not arguing. Somebody telling you to do more so they feel loved by you is not arguing. Somebody telling you how you hurt them is not arguing. Hearing what you don't want to hear is not arguing! Speaking on what bothers them is not arguing... You learn to communicate when you actually and truly care✍🏾
I just found another beautiful verse❤️
MALACHI 3:10 the Bible says
"I will pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it." May this be your story today!
Nah. 27-33 aren't your humbling years. They're your awakening years.
So many people misunderstand this phase of life.
That's when you start seeing things clearly. Everything suddenly dawns on you. You realize what you want, what doesn't matter, and how much time you've wasted.
Some people mistake that clarity for failure because they wish they had figured it out earlier.
But if you're determined, you can build more in those few years than you did in your entire early twenties.
I will never ever be a cool girlfriend! Uma kukhona engingakuzwa kahle, uzongchazela kuze kuse. We’re not moving on from the topic until it makes sense to me😭😭😭
Most people have never loved a whole person and that's why I really support friends to lovers.
You get to witness how beautifully insane she is before you fall in love with her. You see the emotional spirals, strange habits, intensity, fears, chaos, and somehow you love that version first.
And then something magical happens, over time that same woman slowly transforms into an angel whose heart contains nothing but love, care, devotion, and softness for you. The "batshit crazy" never really disappears cause you loved that part too and it simply becomes integrated, and held within the safety of being deeply loved.
I do not understand why everyone speaks as though they fell in love with a fantasy that suddenly shattered. Did no one actually meet the person before deciding to love them?
seeing the madness, wounds, peculiarities, and saying, "Yes, I know. Come here." Is love.
Perhaps people aren't falling out of love but rather they simply never loved the whole person to begin with.
True lovers know there is no such thing as someone "better," because love itself is what makes a person irreplaceable.
ofc, if you look around long enough, you will always find someone with better looks, money, higher status, intelligence, or a more impressive résumé. But they will not be your person, and that is why those comparisons become meaningless.
Love is what transforms ordinary traits into something sacred and it is why his laugh matters more than another man's beauty, why her voice better than another woman's perfection. The person becomes special because they are loved, not the other way around.
That is why if someone loves you primarily for your looks, money, status, or accomplishments, they do not truly love you, because there will always be someone with more. Desire built upon comparison remains trapped within comparison.
love begins when you are loved for being you, and everything else becomes merely complementary. Love chooses, and then makes that choice incomparable.