Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.
I pour into a lot of people because God assigned me to, but he also taught me to know when my assignment is up. Everybody can’t go with you, everybody can’t grow with you and you can’t save everybody.
being in a healthy relationship taught me that there’s no such thing as “this is who I am, take it or leave it”. when you genuinely love a person, you work on those toxic traits, u learn to communicate, u listen to each other’s feelings and encourage individuality.
I am so protective over this current version of me. It took a lot of mental, emotional, and spiritual work for me to get to this stage. So if I come off as if I’m too good for certain people, situations, events, conversations, whatever…it’s because at this point in my life I am.