The manipulated man by esther collar. It’s a bit long. lol.
MEN ARE NOT THE OPPRESSORS. MEN ARE THE ONES BEING EXPLOITED.
Esther Vilar exposed this in 1971 and they wanted her dead for it. A woman attacked her on live TV. That's how dangerous the truth was.
Here is her thesis, without the sugar coating:
A man is born with one purpose — to serve.
He is trained from childhood. Be strong. Don't cry. Work hard. Make money. Protect her. Provide for her. Die for her. If you do all of that, you might be called a "real man." If you don't, you are nothing. A failure. A bum. Not a man at all.
He spends 40 years breaking his back. In construction, in mines, on oil rigs, in wars. He comes home broken, with a paycheck that is never his. It goes to her house. Her kids. Her lifestyle. Her security.
And she has the audacity to call him her oppressor.
Think about it. What oppressor works 12 hours a day so the oppressed can stay home? What oppressor is told to go down with the ship while the oppressed gets the lifeboat? What oppressor pays for a house he doesn't own, for kids that will be taken from him, for a lifestyle that will be used as evidence that he was "controlling" her?
Vilar said women have 3 weapons and they never fail:
*1. PRAISE:* "You're such a good provider, honey." Translation: Keep working, slave.
*2. PRESSURE:* Nagging, guilt, tears, silent treatment until he obeys.
*3. WITHHOLDING:* Intimacy becomes a transaction. He gets it when he behaves. He loses it when he doesn't. Like training a dog.
She doesn't want equality. Equality would mean she carries the bricks. She works the sewers. She dies in the wars. She asks you out. She pays for the date. She splits rent 50/50 without complaint.
She doesn't want that. No woman ever wanted that.
What she wants is a comfortable master. A man strong enough to provide, dumb enough to believe he is in charge. A man who pays for her freedom while calling himself free.
Love? Marriage? Vilar said those were invented by women to lock down a provider for life. He thinks he chose her. No. She chose him. She audited his future income and gave him permission to serve her.
The system is rigged. He loses his kids in court and pays her to raise them. He loses his house and pays her to live in it. He loses his health and is told to "man up." And if he complains, he is called toxic, weak, insecure.
The most exploited animal on this planet is the man who believes his worth is measured by how much he can provide for a woman who secretly despises him.
Vilar's solution was brutal and true:
The only free man is the man who no longer seeks female validation.
The moment you stop needing her praise, her approval, her body you become ungovernable. You work for yourself. You live for yourself. You keep what is yours.
Until then, you are not a man. You are a resource. A utility. A wallet with a pulse.
*MEN WERE NEVER THE OPPRESSORS. MEN ARE THE EXPLOITED CLASS.*
Women show genuine love and desire through respect. If she disrespects you even during plays, she doesn't take you serious. A man is fragile to a woman in love. Know this.
Keeping everyone (including Africans) completely ignorant about Africa and the central role it plays in the economic and natural world is a core feature of Europeanised education, not a bug.
You're not supposed to know that the DRC is the most resource-rich country in the world, with an estimated $24 trillion sitting under its soil. You're not supposed to know that the rise of "western civilisation" from the 15th century on was entirely made possible by European contact with Africa, and that the resources and labour extracted from coastal West Africa from 1492 onwards are the entire reason why both American continents exist in their current form.
You're not supposed to know that both WW1 and WW2 were essentially wars fought over the right to African colonial domination and expansion, and that even the uranium that was used in "Little Boy" and "Fat Man" dropped on Hiroshima and Nagasaki came from Shinkolobwe uranium mine in eastern DRC. You're not supposed to know that the reason the country of France exists in its current form is because tens of thousands of conscripted West African soldiers fought and won against the Nazis in Europe, and the French thereafter shipped them back to West Africa and massacred them at Camp Thiaroye in Senegal to avoid paying them their due wages.
You're not supposed to know that there was nothing cold about the so-called Cold War, because the vast majority of the hot theaters it was physically fought in were on the continent of Africa. (Zimbabwe, DRC, Mozambique, Namibia, South Africa, Angola, Eritrea, Zambia etc). You're not supposed to know that the ongoing Ukraine war and the war in the Sahel are in fact the same conflict being fought by the same 2 sides, and that the reason France is desperately pushing funding and arms to Ukraine even as it falls into internal crisis is that Ukraine is acting as its proxy army in West Africa, as it tries to regain its lost colonial territories there, especially Niger where the cheap yellowcake uranium for its famously cheap nuclear energy used to come from before the 2023 revolution.
You're definitely not supposed to know that the entire global economy and system of trade as you know it is built on ruthless extraction from Africa and ensuring that Africa does not control anything it exports. You're not supposed to know that "Italian leather" doesn't come from Italy - it comes from Kano, Nigeria. You're not supposed to know that "Swiss chocolate" does not exist because cocoa does not grow anywhere in Switzerland or Europe - it comes from Ghana, Cote d'Ivoire and Nigeria. You're not supposed to know that Israel and the UAE control the global diamond and gold markets even though Israel has no diamond mine and the UAE has zero gold mines, because both resources are literally being stolen from the DRC and Sudan on an industrial basis.
You're basically not supposed to understand that the entire geopolitical world as you know it, rests entirely on extraction from Africa, poverty of Africans, and your own ignorance about where everything you use comes from.
Completely deliberate 500+ year-old feature, not accidental bug.
I was telling someone the benefits of Tomatoes leaf when it comes to circulatory disorders and many other things like brain issues, epilepsy, menstrual cramps/stomach cramps… he did his research and was wowed.
Same with coffee leaf as a good source of insulin or using bitter leaf stick to brush.
Not to mention the countless benefits of guava, soursop leaf or even coconut.
Africans, protect your plants, protect your herbs.
Plant!.
Today, many black men and women can’t stand under the sun for 2 minutes without complaining… why?
The black skin was naturally created to withstand the sun. In fact, we are the sun and the sun is us.
Everything about the black race seemed systematically targeted when they found out our genes are deeper and more genetically diverse.
Our black native soap was one hell of a powerful soap, and we could make it to serve whatever purpose we wanted it to serve our skin. We used it to treat wounds, rashes, etc. We creamed our bodies with shea butter, palm kernel oil, and coconut oil.
Today, many black men and women can’t stand under the sun for 2 minutes without complaining… why? Because we have so chemicalized our skin just because we wanted to feel among, and also because the system engineering worked.
Today, there is skin cancer here and there… guess what? There are some skin products you use, and the moment you stop using them, you hate yourself more… calm down and process that. How is that supposed to be normal?
We come from a place where 99% of what we used on our skin was natural. We could trace and identify it without needing any Western lab.
We went from Pako Ijebu, Orogbo (bitter kola), Dogoyaro, Orin ata, bitter leaf wood, miswak and Ayin to Maclean, Closeup, plastic toothbrush…. Meaning we went from 100% natural to chemical and plastic.
Now things that were never recorded in your family are beginning to make you frequent the hospital… mouth ulcers, throat cancer, vocal cord surgery, etc. From where to where?
This whole thing is right there in your faces to do the 1+1… but many of you don’t care, and we are paying the heavy price for that negligence.
Everything that healed those who came before us, if you put it on Google today, you will see something like:
“Not scientifically proven.”
But it worked, yea?… so why, or what are they waiting for to test it or scientifically prove it?
Or what if they have tested it and can now scientifically prove it but putting the information out there is going to be a bigger disadvantage to them because in Africa we have those things in abundance?
Is that why some of our fruits are becoming seedless?
Is that why they are taking time to hybridize our seeds, so we can’t replant them anymore?
Things that nature gave to us freely, men are now trying to take control of so they can dictate or control us with their “what is right.”
Most of the trees and fruits you saw growing up, many of you can’t remember the last time you saw them. Why? They are going. Some are secretly being exported.
Gradually, gradually, we continue to get eaten from the inside.
They tell you our own is bad, theirs is better.
In 2026, the Ghanaian president refused to sign the United States health compact, you know why?
One of the clauses states that medicines and other medical products brought in under the programme would not be subject to inspection by Ghana’s Food and Drugs Authority.
And as of today, twenty-four African countries have signed it, with Kenya being the first… Nigeria signed on the 19th of December, 2025.
Hmmm….
One thing I know today is, if world powers decide to wipe Africa today, they know they don’t need missiles and guns.
All they have to do is take advantage of Africa’s greedy politicians and it’s people , pay their government, then their government pays the influencers to push a story that the water nature gave us is the reason behind cancer and they now have a better alternative.
Give Africa one year, it will be gone.
And if by luck there are any survivors, it will be those who question things.
Protect your seeds. Go back to planting trees and fruits around your compound… let us modernize it our own way before we lose everything completely.
You are not a bush person, you are AFRICAN and African populations carry the oldest and most diverse mitochondrial branches, mainly the L haplogroups.
All living humans’ mitochondrial lineages trace back to a woman in Africa.