Her house burned down, the man she loved for over a decade cheated on her, she lost her voice, and her own father walked away when she needed him most. And through it all, she kept going, holding herself together. My heart aches for her. This song was meant for her
I wouldn't have bought anything until the woman was fired on the spot.
But I am not Adam Sandler. Nice lesson, he taught them anyway.
Never judge a book by its cover.
there comes a time when you meet someone who lovingly holds a mirror to your face and it’ll be very uncomfortable at first but it’s important that you stay. looking at yourself through the lens of someone who loves and sees you will heal you.
i realized that a lot of adults are healing their inner child and that's one of the reasons why i don't make fun of people who have "childish" hobbies. Some people didn't get to have a childhood until they became adults.
I don’t judge women for staying in situations they should’ve left sooner. Love makes you hopeful. Love makes you patient. Love makes you believe. And sometimes, love teaches you the hardest lessons. ❤️🩹
Ngl realizing that you're incompatible with someone (because they don't meet your basic standards of courtesy, respect and reciprocation) and choosing to walk away instead of forcing it/blaming yourself/fantasizing about their potential is a superpower. look how much you've grown
Facing your own mess is heavy. Coming to terms with the choices YOU made, the times YOU didn’t protect yourself, the moments you crossed your own boundaries. That point where you realize everybody can’t take the blame and you had a hand in what fell apart too. Sitting with that truth hurts, but learning how to forgive yourself hurts even more. Growth doesn’t move in a straight line. Days like this are part of it. Feel it, acknowledge it, but don’t get stuck living there.
STAY CLEAR of the people who don’t value the small sacrifices you make… like spending money you barely have, showing up when you’re tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, or being the one who checks in first.
if you're not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it won’t work for me. because i’m very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont & i never want to love someone and not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you ask me.
I pray I marry a man who actually wants to be married. A man who isn't out here embarrassing the family we created.. I pray I marry an honest, hardworking, loving man. I pray he has morals, goals, and boundaries. even when things get tough between us he won't give up and tries >
A girl on tiktok said "detachment is crazy because you'll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they're okay. you just stop showing it" and that's real life.
peak female experiences :
1. realizing u can wear whatever you want
2. becoming besties with your sister
3. friendships start turning 10+ years old
4. accepting your body
5. finally understanding your mother
6. de-centering men
7. developing a ferocious sense of self-love