I really wanna be a WIFE BUT i wanna be a genuinely happy wife. A submissive wife. A cooking wife. A loving wife. A glowy wife. A secure wife. A Caring & obsessed wife, to a Honorable, provider, hardworking, LOYAL, loving, romantic, emotionally intelligent, God fearing husband>>
a lesson i learned this year is that a person's capacity for growth is directly linked to how much truth they can face about themselves without running away
Social media has RUINED the expectations of a man in a relationship. “if he wanted to he would.” a 23 year old man does not need to be buying you expensive clothes, bags and trips when he’s trying to build a life. that’s not normal. 1/2
self-sabotage is also:
- not asking for help
- rejecting praise
- isolating yourself when hurt
- saying "yes" to everything
- putting your needs on hold
- procrastinating on important tasks
- watching too much news
- trying to be perfect
Always have something to look forward to. A nice meal after the end of a long shift, a trip, a book, a show to watch,.. just have something you are excited to get to. It eases life