The discourse around liking pictures while in a relationship is exactly why so many women are becoming emotionally detached from dating. Too many ppl normalize behavior that keeps one foot in single life while pretending to not be driven by lust & constant access to other women
Yup. A lot of women aren’t wearing their natural hair because they don’t think they have enough beauty capital with their other traits to “get away” with it. Many know the hair is make/ break between the cusps they sit on aesthetically.
I think the unspoken layer here (BW x hair) is that a lot of these conversations are being driven by women who had to arrive at loving their hair, and because of that, they treat that arrival like a moral position instead of a personal journey.
So now there’s a hierarchy.
White people of all classes benefit from white privilege
Men of all classes benefit from male privilege
Wealthy people of any race or gender benefit from class privilege
All able bodied people hold privilege
All c!s gender people hold privilege
All adults hold privilege