The worst thing you can do for your marriage is to follow advice from random people without having full context. There's no formula to be the perfect parent/partner, support and love as much as possible and you'll probably be fine, keep in mind kids learn by example.
We did 'cry it out' for all 4 of our kids & they're all kind, loving, happy, healthy kids.
The worst thing you can do for your marriage is:
1. Not let your wife get enough sleep
2. Not let your kids get enough sleep
As parents, you NEED time together, alone, and the best way to do that is kids learning how to sleep on their own... in their crib by 6 months.
If you don't take your kids sleep seriously from day 1... you're in for a world of trouble for years to come.
@VicVijayakumar IMO pairing helps a lot with type 2, there's context sharing and you build trust in the process. I'll always be down to pairing with an outsider to implement stuff that benefits my team
@LuisvonAhn@duolingo My youngest kid is ~70 days away, he wants to visit Duolingo's office as a reward when he gets to 365 days, I'm already planning a car trip to NYC or Pittsburgh. Would it be possible to get him a tour around the office?
@beltrandelrio No creo que la gente emigre por no ser productivos. IMO es el poder adquisitivo del ingreso el principal factor, el que es flojo lo es en todos lados sin importar el pais
48 hrs ago I found my role was impacted by Stripe layoffs. I decided to build a profile landing page while exploring options for my next role because YOLO check it out https://t.co/Xhc1pb3R1s . If you're looking for a senior full stack dev let's chat, #rails
@viajaVolaris pesima limpieza, las tarjetas de seguridad del vuelo 3501 BJX-CUN asiento 7A del 8/1/24 estaban llenas de mucosidad, tipo venom segun mi hijo, y por mas que se le comento al personal nunca las retiraron.
any good blogs (I'm looking *specifically* for blogs not papers) about programmers real-world experience with a solid *single* developer lesson that an undergrad in CS could grok?
good example:
"don't rewrite" Joel Spolsky https://t.co/RMOMGx4Evp
lmk! 👇
@JasonSwett Best approach I've seen is codebase where you need to set a due date and it will create a ticket for you. Easy to cheat for sure, but also make it easy to follow up on what needs to be done. Not perfect, u can always ignore the ticket but better than nothing.