Call me old fashioned but I really do love traditional gender roles 😭 if my partner is providing for me, paying the bills and spoiling me, then I absolutely am packing his lunches, having him come home to a clean, comfy house, cooking dinner every night, washing clothes, etc. he provides the house, I make it a home simple🤏🏾
YOU START LOOKING AT PEOPLE DIFFERENT WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT HOW THEY REALLY BEEN TREATING YOU. especially when you realize how much you overlooked just to keep peace, avoid arguments, or keep somebody in your life.
They shooting the messenger, but she ain’t wrong. Dating and sex were heavily demonized in a lot of our homes. We were told to stay away from boys and focus on school. The problem is that relationships are a skill set too and many Black women were prepared for careers but left to figure out dating, boundaries, and healthy partnership on our own.