A bd can be bitter too. Not helping financially because y’all not on good terms. Not showing up physically. Making things harder for the mom instead of easier. Doing things halfway. Picking and choosing when he wants to help and what he wants to help with. All of that is BITTER.
Not all single mothers come with drama. Some have diplomas, degrees, and good jobs. They go to work, raise their kids in peace and stay independent. But y'all ain't ready to talk about this.
i'm a type C girl...
- i can deep clean the whole house. or ignore a laundry pile for days.
- i can give a motivational pep talk, or need one myself.
- i can be 20 mins early or walk in 20 mins late.
- i can go to bed at 8pm, or scroll reels until the sun comes up.
call me what you want but you can NEVER call me a bad mother. i’m the one handling it all, the sleepless nights, sick days and the bad days. I’m ALWAYS there.