Having kids is so serious. I donโt think ppl understand that by the way everybody getting pregnant and so young. Kids are not an accessory. Being a parent is real life shit. It takes real life sacrifices, selflessness, financial stability, maturity and so much more.
Keep things to a minimum with people this year. Dont over share your business! Whatever youโre going through, pray about it!! & any plans you make, stick to them, even if that means isolating.
Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never lose sight of thatโ never get so carried away pointing fingers that you forget you, too, have abscesses that need tending.
I think every woman hits that season where sheโs not angry anymore, just aware. You see people clearly. You see yourself and actions even more clearer. You move differently. You donโt explainโฆ you just SHIFT. Thatโs maturity mixed with grace ๐ค
Thank you God for bringing me to the last Saturday in this year. I am grateful for the gift of life and for your mercy. May your presence go with me and I pray no weapon formed against me shall prosper.
Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn't less love. Check in not out.