A gente tá TÃO focada SÓ no amor romântico que não enxergamos outros tipos de amor, o amor também mora nos detalhes da vida, do conforto, da família, dos amigos, do trabalho, das recompensas, dos “nãos” da vida, de pessoas que te admiram, do seu lazer…
maturity is improving yourself instead of proving yourself to others, understanding yourself instead of explaining yourself to others, validating yourself instead of seeking validation from others, and loving yourself instead of loving others harder to make them stay or love you.
“stop looking for closure from people who hurt you. Their lack of accountability is your closure. Their lack of apology with changed behavior is your closure. Their silent treatment is your closure.”