My therapist once said "growth is realizing that someone's inconsistency is a sign to step back, not a challenge to prove your worth" and i think y'all need to engrave this into your soul.
I’m forever jealous of people who are not sensitive, who don’t take things seriously, who don’t panic, who know how to ignore, who don’t waste their time in overthinking, who don’t have attachment issues, these people are the most blessed ones whom i always envy.