According to attachment theory, genuine love is reflected in how someone responds to your pain, not just your presence. When someone truly values your wellbeing, their deepest fear isn't losing access to you - it's causing you harm. But when someone only loves what you provide for them they fear losing their supply, not hurting your heart. This subtle difference reveals everything about whether you're loved for who you are or what you give. Notice which one keeps them awake at night
Lauren London did an interview and said:
"We Never argued or fought. But I would be crazy sometimes, and in those moments he never lost his cool, never disrespected me back, or called me out my name. He loved me anyway. I would get hot headed, sometimes out of line, and aimed to him cause it was easy, but he would love me, hug me, he would stay patient and bring me back to character. That's how I know I lost my soulmate. No one else is gonna love me like him, nho else comforts my soul like he did. He was my positive when the devil threw his negative my way. He was a MAN. He was my best half." We all deserve true love at least once in a lifetime.. Even if it's for justa moment in time ..