She was at the post office
In her room
She took a walk,
Went for a jog
She was with friends
With her boyfriend
Her husband
Her brother
She was alone
In the uber
Waiting for the uber
On a date
With her mace
and live location
She existed
And that alone was her crime
"Nywe nywe, collapse state"
Day in, day out nithulile le ja mamina while your friends abandon their children. You actively blame women for choosing deadbeats. And now women are choosing not to be single mothers, you're suddenly worried about a collapsing state? Nidakiwe❤️
She saw you weren’t interested and she removed herself. Would you have rather her keep reaching out to keep getting ignored or to accept your lack of interest and move on?
Yes. Women are often expected to give these grand reasons why they don't want children. Health. Money. Circumstance.
Reject the need to explain yourself. You don't kids because you DON'T WANT KIDS PERIOD. And that's okay.
Off context, but I hate how you could meet the right person and still not know how to make it work because you’ll always be cautious about everything, you find out you’re just projecting and you really don’t even know what is the correct reaction to what, unzima umjolo.😭🙏🏽