I keep saying this….until people start treating marriage like a genuine partnership, situations like this will keep happening. You can’t build a stable home where one person is exhausted and unsupported while the other expects to be catered to. Shared work and shared responsibilities are what prevent resentment and breakdown.
nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. the rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. the absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. it comes in waves. sometimes you’ll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you.
i stayed longer than i should’ve because part of me thought patience would turn effort into love. it doesn’t. it just teaches people what you’re willing to tolerate.
Yup. He’s up to 11 pounds. They have to transfer him to another hospital for because the current hospital he’s at cannot meet his complex needs. The family is 100% responsible for the cost even tho the state forced them to keep that poor woman “alive” as a human incubator.
No news outlet is covering this, you know why? Because the fucking experiment on a black woman’s body has FAILED miserably. The only updates are from grandma’s go fund me. They let that woman die for a clump of cells (she was only 9 weeks pregnant at the time) that’s not even doing ok 6 months later. 6 months is a long time to be in nicu!
Adriana Smith is her name. I am so sorry the state did this to you. You were a 30 year old nurse with a kid who was already here who needed you. The state failed you, the very hospital that you worked at who was so supposed to help you failed you…everybody failed you.
I’ve realized a lot of men really don’t like women being women anymore. Women can’t complain, can’t be a lil dramatic sometimes, can’t be sensitive, etc…. It’s almost like they want to be in a relationship with a man.