Hot take. I don’t consider this fear mongering. I consider this reality. Women are so rarely honest about what motherhood and raising children is like so we sell ourselves this fantasy and then end up depressed cause it’s not what we expected. Good. I’m glad we’re being honest
Soooo yall seriously don’t use After Pay and Klarna? 😭😭😭 money isn’t really the issue for me but something about splitting the payments into 4 makes me feel better 🤷🏾♀️
Yall don't care about your own mental health. Y'all don't seek therapy you just go around hurting people bc of your unhealed trauma with no regard to how it impacts others.
babies change the dynamic of a relationship and i need people to think about that. for example, after you give birth, you and your partner are essentially forced into penetrative celibacy for 6 weeks. that’s something you need to talk to your partner about. it seems silly but
I think baecations are so important. Even if you guys only go an hour away. Just spending time with one another uninterrupted, in a different city is heaven sent.
“Let me ask my partner” is actually deeply healthy in many scenarios and shows that the person values the input of their significant other. Y’all just don’t want to consider someone else and think being hyper independent and “you don’t own me!!!” Leads to a successful PARTNERship. Yes it’s dumb and can be controlling when it comes things like outfits or something. But if you aren’t ready to genuinely consider someone else’s feelings and input on an activity or event or whatever that realistically will impact you both, you aren’t ready for an adult partnership.
@BarnardChasity !!! it’s liking the half naked pictures, bikini pics, vids of them literally shaking a$$ ! it just makes me cringe and feel it’s disrespectful 🤢
but apparently it’s about insecurity 👇🏽🤣