my favourite genre is a woman who is free. even if she is married, she is free in spirit. even when she has children, she is free in her mind, body and soul. a woman can show up for those she loves and still be free. she easily creates time for herself to do what she loves.
If you strive to be ‘good,’ rather than honest, thoughtful, discerning, and principled, you’ll forever be controlled by social approval and relentlessly alienated from your real voice.
You’ll only ever obsess over the ppl who make you feel unsafe. Obsession isn’t born from love, it’s instability & not knowing where you stand. The ones who leave you spiraling & crashing out are the ones who pull you in.
i told my therapist that i let some things slide that bother me to "keep the peace" and she told me "that sounds nice, but you're keeping the peace around you...what about the peace in you" now I just been saying whatever is on my mind. 1/2
february, pour light where my essence is dim and illuminate any path that leads me back to myself. water my discernment so enough awareness grows from my wounds to recognize what deserves my energy and what doesn’t. may i see myself through healed eyes instead of broken mirrors.
I got real life friends that I consider sisters and I don’t talk to them everyday but I know at any moment they will show up and show out about me. So talking to somebody everyday never been a form of validation in a friendship for me. It’s quality over quantity.