God, please put better people in my life. People who mean what they say and show it through their actions. I’ve spent enough time giving chances to people who only showed up when it benefited them. Enough time overlooking things I should’ve paid attention to from the start.
Vocal men are top tier. Imagine telling you how much they love you, point out your wrong doings in a nice tone, never invalidate your feelings, communicate with you when you hurt them, and telling how worthy you are and how much you mean to them.
Call me old fashioned but I really do love traditional gender roles 😭 if my partner is providing for me, paying the bills and spoiling me, then I absolutely am packing his lunches, having him come home to a clean, comfy house, cooking dinner every night, washing clothes, etc. he provides the house, I make it a home simple🤏🏾